You know the arguments? The arguments that shape us? You know, in that revolving door of relational discord? Well it'd been years since I'd made a pie. And then recently I made one, then another.  Making peace with pie, with an argument that shaped me, I realize. The pies haven't been all that great, but they've been good enough! The process hasn't been all that awful. I'll probably buy an actual pie dish and make another one one of these days soon. So far I've done blackberry and apple--suggestions? Just don't tell me how to measure. Yeah, just don't tell me how to measure! When I was married, this was an ongoing argument--"How to measure ingredients." Can any other couple claim that one? How to measure ingredients! Specifically flour.  a)Do you spoon the floor into the measuring cup just so, then lightly tidy the top so it's perfectly straight filled up?  Sure. I'm sure that is very precise. Very helpful.  Or, b)do you scoop the c